Because Steve's in the National Guard and has to go to drill one weekend a month, I'm left alone at church one out of every four weeks to teach the 8-9-year-olds in Primary. I explained to them a few times when he isn't there that Bro. Perry is in the Army and has to do "army stuff" one Sunday every month. The first couple of times they all had questions about what he was doing, if he had to fight in the war, and even if he had killed anyone. After a few months, the questions died down and they got used to Bro. Perry doing "army stuff" that day.
Except for one boy. Without fail, every time I mentioned that Steve was doing "army stuff", he would ask,
"Is he going to die?"
"No," I would tell him.
"But he was in the war, right?"
"For a little while, yes. But he probably won't have to go back."
Then the questions would end. Until the next drill weekend.
I found this sort of funny because this boy is a handful in class, and I knew he probably wasn't overly concerned about Steve's safety. More like, he wanted to talk about "tough" stuff, like people dying at war. But at the same time, if he would have asked me that during Steve's deployment, I would have cried every time.
Anyway, this year we have a new class. And it was also a drill weekend. I introduced myself to the kids and told them where Bro. Perry was. These kids are a lot more shy than my last class, so they didn't ask me anything.
Except for one girl, who happens to be the little sister of the inquisitive boy in my last class and equally as rambunctious.
"Is he going to die?"
"No, " I said.
"A lot of people die in the Army, " she replied.
"True. But there are a lot more people who come back safe. Bro. Perry was there for over a year and he's OK."
"I think about half of the people in the Army die," was her 8-year-old conclusion.
. . . til next drill weekend.